Friday, December 18, 2009

Sorry, did I ask for your opinion?

I find it really odd that I get so much criticism about my marriage.

I am really happy, I love my marrige and I adore my husband.  We're newlyweds, things aren't perfect, but what relationship is?

I have one friend that thinks because we're not doing it like rabbits, our marriage must be bad.  Obviously my decision to marry this person was wrong.  Who could marry someone who didn't hump them like a dog in heat 24/7?

I have a coworker that is convinced that you should never marry anyone you've ever broken up with.  I have to say, lots of people wouldn't be married if tht were the case.   I'm GLAD Matt and I had some time apart for a while.  He was 21 and had never dated, I was 23 and had been round the block a few times.  We weren't in the same place in life. We needed a little time, and now we're awesome.

I don't know, it just irritates me a lot.  Do I not sing his praises enough? what am I doing to make people think this?

Then again, as I'm writing this I'm realizing all my critics are in their 30's and single.  

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